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Isn’t it funny how you can just know?

Just know somehow that a person is right for you?

I first met Troy when I was 17, and he was in his 20’s.  He was friend’s with my sister’s friend.  Got that?  We all met up to go play mini golf.  I was riding with my sister, and we got out of her car.  I was standing in the parking lot, and saw him.

He stepped out of a rusted gold El Camino, that was so ugly my sister and her friends referred to it as “the panty dropper”, and I audibly gasped.

I elbowed my sister and said “who in the hell is that”.

Her response?  “That’s Troy.  He’s pretty, we don’t date him”.  I assumed that collective “we” meant myself as well, but dang I was drawn to him.

We were all playing mini golf, and Troy and his friend decided to be boys, and nudged my ball in to the river.  Determined to not be intimidated, I kicked off my shoes, jumped in, and played the ball where it lied.  In the damn river.

And then I didn’t see him again for a few years.  Sigh.

In that time, he had a serious girlfriend, and I had a serious boyfriend.

Flash forward a few years, and the serious boyfriend and I broke up.  I knew it wasn’t meant to be, and I just couldn’t keep moving forward in our relationship.  It wasn’t fair to the boy.  I called my sister to let her know we had broken up and she said “you should know that Troy likes you”.

(gasp)

I asked her how long was proper after a serious relationship ended, before you started dating again.  She mentioned that she had heard protocol was to wait at least one week for each month you had been dating.  That would equate to waiting five months.

I called him two days later.

We had a few dates, and then he left for two months to work on a movie with for six(ish) weeks.  We talked on the phone occasionally, picked up where we left off when he returned.

Some people fall in love slowly, but I fell hard and fast.  I knew I liked him from the start, but the moment I knew I loved him involved bathroom humor.  Of course.

We were hanging out with a group of people at a restaurant/bar, but had to be in the restaurant part because I wasn’t yet 21 (Troy’s a dirty old perv).  He excused himself to go to the bathroom, and remained in there for let’s just say an extended period of time.

When he came back, I said “you were gone long”.

He said “I ran in to a guy I knew from high school in there”.

Me: “it’s a one-seater bathroom”.

Troy: “yeah, it was super awkward”.

Even 12 years later, just typing that makes me laugh so hard that tears come out of my eyes.  The moment I knew this would be the person I was going to marry involved a poop joke.  It was meant to be.

Today is our 10th wedding anniversary.  I got married young (remember, Troy’s an old perv, and was not as young), and have been married to this man for almost a third of my life.  There have been days that are so joyful I feel like it should be illegal.  And, because it’s real life, there are days when things are so hard and you have to keep working to move forward, that it feels like you’re screaming underwater.

Marriage is extremely hard work; no lie.  But, in my life, I’m so thankful that I get to put in that work and effort with a man who makes me smile, makes me laugh, is the most amazing dad in the world, and works harder than any other person I know.  The laughter and humor gets me every time.

In the end, this world is a hard place.  Getting to go through it with someone who can still make you laugh after 12 years is a gift that I wouldn’t trade for the world.  Poop jokes and all.

You had me at poop joke.

(tiny dramatic sob) You had me at poop joke.

Happy anniversary love.

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18 comments on “Diez”

  1. MMM. Nice story. Congrats on 10 years. He looks sorta like Matthew Perry and you look cute too.

  2. Be-a-u-tiful! Lovely story and many congrats on 10 years! I love hearing these, especially as a single person, haha. “Too cute, we don’t date him”. Bahaha.

  3. Since you don’t ‘do’ girly and pink, I kinda figured you don’t do sweet either.
    I was wrong.
    This is one of the sweetest posts ever.
    Happy anniversary!

  4. Aaawww… What a great post! -Marci @ Stone Cottage Adventures

  5. Congrats! We just celebrated 10 years as well. Ten is a good number :0)

    Marriage is hard work, but so worth it when the person your committed to (with?) has more awesomeness than ass0ness. And inappropriate humor always saves the day.

    Can’t wait to read your 20th anniversary post!

  6. Happy Anniversary to my little flower girl and Troy!! Man did 10 years fly by!! Your wedding was beautiful, but it was the hottest freaking day of the year!!! Hahaha xo

  7. Awwww! Yes, very sweet post. Thanks for sharing a little of your love story and love the pictures too! Congratulations on ten years married <3

  8. Ooh, you look soooo pretty! Congratulations!

  9. Congrats! and this is a cute story, because it is real. Thank you.

  10. Congratulations! What a lovely post and may I say you both make a beautiful couple. Wishing you lots of love, laughter and happiness for many more anniversaries to come.

  11. Aww, that’s funny! Congrats on 10 years!

  12. Congratulations!!!!!! You make me cry. What a wonderful story.

  13. Congrats on 10 years! You are right- marriage is so joyful some days and the hardest thing in the world others. I too got married young (I was 18 and he was 19 and we knew each other a whole whoopin’ 45 days the day we got married) and we have been married almost 11 years 🙂

  14. Congratulations on your tin/aluminum anniversary 🙂

    Hubby & I have been married 33 years. Years ago we were asked what our secret was for staying together. Hubby, who has always been the quiet one, looked up and said, “Never give up on the same day”.

    Feel free to follow his sage advice 🙂

    • Brenda, my other half explains our longevity (going on 13 years) to never falling apart at the same time 🙂 It sure seems to help. We all need a little help picking ourselves up occasionally.

    • Oh my gosh, Brenda, I love that! And so VERY true. Need to write it in my quote book.

  15. Super sweet and congrats on your 10 years, wishing you decades and decades of happiness, fun and lots more love!! I love this post!

  16. Congratulations! And what a lovely post to mark the occasion!